Dilemma, please help?

With friend #1 you need to cause her to break up with her boyfriend somehow. Maybe start some **** with her boyfriend so she'll have to choose & if she chooses her abusive boyfriend over you, good riddance. Maybe not START anything but stick up for her when the three of you are together. I wouldn't get upset at her, it just sounds like she has a prick for a boyfriend. With friend #2 you should confront her. She probably has no idea she's treating you so bad if she calls you her best friend. I had sort of a similar situation in middle school until I finally confronted them about it & things got a lot better. If nothing works, i'd say you ahould get new friends but I don't see how friend #1 could stay in that relationship for very long